It sounds like an odd thing for a 29 year old sexually healthy male to ask, but what ways or suggestions are there to increase my libido and be able to have sexual relations more frequently and more times ina row. This is my third relationship in a row with a woman who wants sex daily and preferably 2-3 times daily, often in a row. She doesnt expect it perse, but its wanted. I’m personally happy 4-5 times a week, and twice in a row is hard to come by(no pun intended) without her putting in a lot of work.

So what can I do to increase my libido, and what suggestions are there to increase my odds of being able to and wanted to perform multiple times in a sessions. Types of exercise? Diet changes? Techniques? I love this girl and want to please her more, and its not like she’s demanding anything, but would ike to meet her halfway. Thanks in advance for mature answers to a sensitive questions.

Five elements control cycle (system of checks and balances, each exerting control over another) and associated meridians chart show Metal (large intestine & lung) going to Wood (gall bladder to liver. What is the explanation for this relationship?

I feel pretty good on Paxil CR. The only thing that bothers me is I have a very low libido. It really puts a huge negative impact on my relationship with my boyfriend. I Hate It. It’s awful. I want my sexual drive back. What should I do? Oh, and I have talked to my psychiatrist, she switched me to Lexapro, which made me feel very unhappy regarding depression and anxiety, so now she suggested skip taking the pill the night before you have sex. I notice very little. What do i do?

I have had a 2 boyfriends that I was in a relationship for more than two years. And I trusted that they would tell me if they had anything. But the last boyfriend I had kind of went nuts and I don’t know if he cheated on me. I know that he did drugs but I have no clue what kind. He could have been using needles and I would’nt have know it. So I was wondering how many times I should get tested. Cause I know that HIV/AIDS can stay dormit for many years and not show on the test.

I haven’t been able to get adequate sleep for two weeks now and I’m 9 weeks pregnant. Is there any positive relationship between insomnia and early pregnancy? I have no nausea or vomiting, no urinary frequency so far. I am very tired during days but wide awake during nights. All non-medication methods of dealing with the sleep problem that I tried have been unsuccessful so far.

I’m suffering from chronic insomnia and feel extremely tired during the day and a lack of energy. It has been like this for me for many years now and has taken a huge toll on my career and private life. I’m currently in a relationship I care very much about, but it seems to break apart as well. I have already tried all kinds of prescription medications for sleep, but do not want to take them anymore. Is there may be a herbal supplement or another method that could help?

Before I had my baby over a year ago, I had a very high libido. Ever since I had the baby, I have not wanted sex at all, and even have aversions to it on many occasions. It seems I either want it all the time or NEVER (usually never. I usually feel sorry for my husband a couple times per week and do it, but I don’t really want to). I could go for a month without it and then every night for a week straight. Is it normal to fluctuate so wildly? I am not on any medications, including chemical birth control. I am not working, baby sleeps wonderfully, and our relationship is good.

Well first off I had my first visit with my doctor to get me on some meds.I’ve resently found out I have Bipolar 2. He’s got me on Sertraline for the depression. I take half a pill for 4 days and then a full one after that daily. He also gave me Divalproex for the "mood swings" He said not to take that unless i start feeling naughty lol. I had to laugh.

Even though I still don’t understand it all yet. But needless to say I’m on the right road. I’ve come here for some support and some thoughts on my situation. I’ve messed up my family pretty bad from my actions 3 months ago. I blew 700$ on junk instead of paying the bills and I left my fiance to have a relationship with a guy I met off the internet. These actions now make sense to me, and we’ve discusssed who, what, where, and why. But he’s told me that he won’t come back home until I’m emotionally stable. I truly do understand what I’ve done wrong, and I understand why he feels the way he does.

I know he doesn’t want to get hurt. But how can I get him to understand that I NEED him more than ever right now. I’ve lost my mother to gambling, and her depression. Nothing else matters but herself and her problems. I’ve lost my dad to drugs and drinking. He’s pretty much gone mentally from the abuse. I don’t know him number one, but even if i wanted to have a conversation with him I couldn’t. And lastly I live 30 mins from my nearest family memeber. Grandparents, aunts, and cousins. I really understand I can call them at any time. And they tell me that all the time. But the one and only person I NEED and WANT to help me get through this and understand it won’t come back home.

He says he’s here for me. That we are doing this together, but I feel so lost with out him here. I feel so distant from him. I need him here to have a shoulder to cry on, or to just break down. I broke down last night and I cried alone for hours. I kinda get the feeling that his friend and family are having some what a say in this too. They are not happy that he’s giving me a second chance. They don’t understand that I’m sick. Whether it’s depression, bipolar or both. They don’t understand that as much as it may seem crazy I wasn’t in the right state of mind when I choose the actions I did. It doesn’t exuse it no, but I need everyone to know that I was, and am fighting a sickness, and I need him to be with me. I don’t want to fight alone. I’ve kept my promises.

I’ve given my 150%. I’ve got my first therapy visit, and awaiting the second. I’ve been to the doctor and got my meds so I can fight this and become the person I used to be. I hope anyways. The person he fell in love with. I just don’t know how to get him to understand how much I truly need him to be here with me. How much him being here is going to help me. I don’t want to be pushy.

I want to give him his space he said he needed, but damn it I can’t do this by myself. I’ve sent him emails about information I found on bipolar relationships. I hope he reads it. I need to educate him and I need him to know that we CAN fight this. He doesn’t have to stay at his moms. If anything it’s only making it worse. It’s making the depression a lot worse. Any suggetions on how I can bring this up, or what to do?

On a side note… Anyone familar with these meds? I’ve never heard of either of them. I’m really worried about the insomnia side effect. If i take them around 6 or 7 am will that be enough time to be able to fall asleep at night? Or does that have an effect on sleeping at night too? Thank you so much for listening to me vent. It’s nice to get it off my chest.