I am a 39 yr male and I am suffering from a loss of libido ?
Thursday, April 15th, 2010 at
4:22 pm
I have a younger girlfriend who is very attractive and we use to have sex all the time. now I have very little sex drive is there any natural libido enhancers out there? I do not have depression or a chemical imbalance I have already been checked out for both.
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Go to the doctor and get a prescription. Little Blue Pill and all those over the counter pills you can get a GNC don’t work.
Little blue pill. Or else take her to the adult toy store. Get some toys for the both of you.
Watermelon produces similar effects to viagra
Maybe its who you are keeping company with.
I believe if you go to your family doctor he may prescribe testosterone shots after an examination to determine whether you are stressed etc.
How bout she can hook up with my guy and I’ll hook up with you. I’m only 24 and I don’t like having sex right now….Do you think it’s because he irritates me? He’s 32.
i think its common, u get past that honeymoon period with a new partner then ur sex drive goes nothing to do with how attractive she is or isnt
i would just wait until u feel really horny, dont try to do it before then, then jump her and dont wank
Use booze
This is a very touchy question, your question is either:
A. In need of a real answer in which, you are best to go to see a
Urologist, which deals with sexual problems. Which is what
I am hoping is the reason for your question.
OR
B. You are seeking peoples answers to stimulate your sexual
desires.
I hope A. is the reason you asked that question. In which I apologize for the suggestion of answer in letter B.
I’m sure there are some natural libido enhancers….you just have to do your research or ask your primary physician. But if there isn’t I’m sure he’ll just prescribe you viagra to start off with.
It may not even be your sex drive at all……if you use to have sex all the time it may be more of a routine now and your body doesn’t react to it the same anymore. Might just need to spice it up some.
The best natural enhancers are modifiers to some of your current life conditions, namely, getting more cardiovascular exercise, and reducing the amounts of harmful stress-inducers in your life. The benefits of exercise are obvious and immediate;you’ll feel "pumped up" after a workout because your blood is free flowing throughout your body in an oxygenated, energizing way. More oxygen equals greater blood flow (circulation), greater circulation equals stronger erections. ,Understand, exercising includes strength training with weights and calisthenic toners like pushups. More oxygen means greater wind, and greater wind means greater endurance…greater endurance equals better turgidity (stiffness) and longer stamina.
Limiting harmful stress inducers in your life doesn’t mean eliminating stress altogether, but learning to healthily manage the stress you have to juggle everyday. In many ways, that’s as simple as learning to prioritize events in your life, and learning to simply let go of the truly unimportant items. (You’d be amazed how many there can be that we needlessly tote around all day everyday….to our own detriment.) Learn to relax, learn to play, learn to actively seek out "fun".
Don’t be fooled into thinking alcohol is a remedy worth considering. Nothing kills a hard-on quicker than too much alcohol, particularly the older you get.
Dietary changes may help a bit, too. For some guys, diets rich in tomato based sauces helps a great deal because of the lycopene content. And, of course many health food stores tempt you with herbal remedies like ginseng(s), yohimbe bark, and Mega Man mixtures of all sorts. Some of these things give promising little accents to the gains you’ve made from other life changes such as those suggested above. But you should only explore those options after you’ve had a full medical workup and assurance that introduction of such substances to your dietry regimen won’t adversely interact with any medications you may already be taking. As with most things, the more naturally you can proceed, the better and more sustainable the results. I’ve got seven years on you, and I assure you, 39 is too young to check out of the game.
Good luck in this regard.
Have you checked your testosterone levels? That is the number 1 culprit for middle aged men losing their libido.
My T’s are up in the 700 range now and I am horny as hell.
Go the other way and have butt sex with an older man. It might just work for you. You will at least get a good scream out of it.
It’s funny you ask about natural enhancers…I was in your situation and tried the blue pill and the side effects were overwhelming. I found one called vigrx plus which has been working amazing, my sex drive is through the roof making me horny all the time. I used to have a weak erection but now this baby stands straight up. I saved on the the stuff at the time at hughs-reviews.com which has loads of info. Well good luck and I hope this helps.